Posted by inthegloaming on February 24, 2004, at 22:30:22
In reply to Re: Fluoxetine and Alcohol--please help » inthegloaming, posted by snarley on February 24, 2004, at 13:57:08
> You said this was your first "sexual" experience. How old are you, and how old was the person who was taking advantage of you in your drunk/drugged state? You said you were sleepy/spaced-out and off in a different place--did you say no or try to get them to stop?
>i'm 19 and yes, i'm admittedly late to the game. there were some things i did say no to--not like 'no' but pushed away--but at the time the other stuff was like... like it was almost like it was happening to someone else and i just happened to be there. i dunno. i mean, i was there but i wasn't. the thing that hurts is that this person would even try this, knowing i was in a different state, and take advantage of that.
> Also, how well did you know this person? If you considered them a good friend, maybe you should re-evaluate that. It's good that they said they felt sorry about it, but that could just be "damage control" type behavior. I'm sure they dont want to get in trouble.
>this person is (was?) a good, good friend. we'd had talks about this kind of stuff before and they knew my stance on sexual touching and my feelings towards them: PLATONIC.
> Young guys are horny by nature, and when drunk they are even more so. You need to keep your wits about you and be able to say no when things go too far.
this wasn't a guy... but whatever. i mean, the point is i thought that i would be OK b/c i was amongst my friends...
anyway, thanks for your letter!
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