Posted by Dog on December 11, 2003, at 14:24:09
In reply to Re: Surreal, posted by DeeJay on December 11, 2003, at 11:42:40
this guy in prison... sounds like you cared for him...maybe you ought to explore why, but maybe not...maybe the past is not useful at least in this case...
i think that the guy you have now, you might feel he is too boring? i don't know w/out meeting you, but i think you crave excitement... i definitely
believe you both should explore your own and each other's personalities...there's this book i highly recommend.. Personality Self Portrait or something like that... written by one of the guys that edited the DSM III-R...in it is a questionaire that you and you boyfriend can take...talk to your Psych. Dr. about it and i'll see if i can find the name of it... it is excellent for pre-marital stuff...
also, what birth-orders are you and your boyfriend?
> I always think of stuff later....bluh!
> Maybe you can help me with some stuff. Reading about your past times makes me think of mine, and they are relationship related....I have a fear of marriage...and I like to keep people at arms length. I finally found someone normal for me (who isn't in prison, which is a loooong story) and who brings all the normalcy I have (thought) I've always wanted to the table. But sometimes, I just don't know. I know I want him there, but it's the neutral thing again. He's super patient, I'm not. And I don't know what about. We are both stubborn and agree to disagree alot, which is good. I have to run, but I'll be back when I remember stuff.