Posted by AnneL on October 9, 2001, at 22:38:03
In reply to I'm defective, posted by Else on October 9, 2001, at 20:48:56
> Else,
Anyone who says mean things to others has a problem. Some of us are more sensitive to other's insensitive comments than others. Defective? Try replacing the word with sensitive,
maybe overly sensitive at times. Are you kind to people? Try giving out at least one genuine compliment to someone each day. The only responsibility you have is to treat yourself with kindness, the rest will follow. Keep your radar out and stay away from mean-spirited people. Everyone has problems, everyone has a sore spot, a hurt spot, a "defect" if you will. There is a saying "fake it 'till you make it". Give one smile to someone and it will be returned. Just a small thing. It's OK to have great needs, just remember in order to get you need to give, even if you can give only a little bit. Consider yourself hugged. :) Anne
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