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Thx tdaneen

Posted by Kath on August 11, 2000, at 17:21:41

In reply to Re: Yucky come-on - feel like it's my fault (long) » Kath, posted by tdaneen on August 11, 2000, at 16:50:12

Thx for your support. I can use all the "it's not your fault"s that come my way!! Funny how I look to others' opinions in this, but I do, I think because of what happened when I was little.
Thank God I have a wonderful lady pdoc who is so gentle & compassionate. I saw her last nite & we did some good work. The ONE good thing that can come out of this is that I can get in touch with some of the feelings about when I was little. I have snips of memories that I've told my pdoc & when I was describing this recent thing, she'd say, 'well, how did the little girl feel when she was sitting there & they laughed at her?' &
whereas I wasn't able to FEEL that before this happened, last nite, I WAS able to feel it when I closed my eyes.

You know, when he phoned & told me he was h**ny a part of me felt like saying "Well for goodness sake, take CARE of it then!!" I guess I felt like that after I got off the phone. When I told my husband's brother that's what HE said 'Why doesn't he take care of it himself?' but then he said, of course it wasn't up to me to talk about ANY of this stuff with Dad.

As usual, your support is greatly appreciated & I gladly accept your smile!

Hugs, Kath


> Oh, Kath.
> I am so sorry.
> What a terribly confusing and frightening experience.
> This is not your fault.
> This is NOT your fault
> This is not YOUR fault.
>
> What he did, what happened was VERY inappropriate behavior. From anyone.
>
> Kath, men and women both are animals, but sexual urges...let me be frank...If the man feels too much tention, well then relief is just within his arms reach (know what I mean?).
>
> You didn't lead him on.
>
> I'm not denying that and elderly gentleman (or lady for that matter) would want a sexual relationship. This is natural, what is NOT natural is to want one with your daughter in law.
>
> You are ok. Keep grounded. Don't let this throw you into flashbacks. It sound like you are facing it well. Keep it up.
>
>
> I'm smiling a tiny encouraging smile for you...
> ....and I do understand this....
>
> T

 

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